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"Consider every species of indelicacy in conversation, as shameful in itself, and as highly disgusting to us. All double entendre is of this sort."

This sage advice, which I'm afraid I have sadly neglected, is from Dr John Gregory (1724–1773), Professor of the Practice of Physic at the University of Edinburgh, and it comes from a small volume of advice and guidance he wrote for his daughters in 1761, entitled A Father’s Legacy to his Daughters. You can read some more gems of advice from Dr Gregory on the University of Strathclyde Archives "Item of the Month" page here. I also particularly liked:

Gregory on men and marriage:

Procure from your friends every necessary piece of information concerning him; such as his character for sense, his morals, his temper, fortune, and family; whether it is distinguished for parts and worth, or for folly, knavery, and loathsome hereditary diseases.

Gregory on socialising:

Wit is the most dangerous talent you can possess. It must be guarded with great discretion and good-nature, otherwise it will create you many enemies.

I have no idea if I posses any wit but, as far as double entendres go, I fear Dr Gregory would regard me as a lost cause!

Date: 2012-02-18 01:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eglantine-br.livejournal.com
Wonder if he would have considered Archie's seizures a deal-breaker. Probably. People with seizures were historically forbidden to marry.

Date: 2012-02-21 10:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
Sadly I suspect Archie's seizures would probably fall under "loathsome hereditary diseases" :( But then I suspect he is probably not that bothered about being forbidden to marry anyway ;)

Date: 2012-02-18 05:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lady-branwyn.livejournal.com
He is right about the art of conversation, though--just nod your head and agree with people, and they will think you are a delightful conversationalist.

Date: 2012-02-21 10:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
The Art of Conversation is clearly misnamed. It is in reality the Art of Listening ;)

Date: 2012-02-18 09:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] donnaimmaculata.livejournal.com
I've just sent these delightful quotes to a friend who will very much appreciate them. She and I always exchange good advice on how to improve our morals and guard our behaviour in a way that behooves young ladies middle-aged spinsters.

I do think you possess some wit.

Date: 2012-02-21 10:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
Any middle aged spinster young lady who is able to emply the word "behooves" in this day and age is clearly a most eligible proposition!
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Date: 2012-02-18 11:01 pm (UTC)

Date: 2012-02-21 10:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
*snigger* I fear there is no hope for you m'dear. Me neither ;)

Date: 2012-02-18 10:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stevie-carroll.livejournal.com
I find myself oddly amused by the loathsome hereditary diseases.

Date: 2012-02-21 10:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
Yes indeed! I wonder how Dr Gregory would advise young ladies to frame such enquiries?!

Date: 2012-02-21 09:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] stevie-carroll.livejournal.com
Tactfully and politely I expect.

Date: 2012-02-18 02:14 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] rikibeth.livejournal.com
Is this the same Gregory as Gregory's "Polite Education" that Jack considers a critical text for his squeakers?

Date: 2012-02-21 10:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
Different Gregory. That one was John Gregory. Though suspect he would have got on famously with Dr John!

Date: 2012-02-19 11:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] esmerelda-t.livejournal.com
Sound advice on the men front! One should always find about fortune and loathsome hereditary diseases, there's no shame in asking a prospective mother in law if there's any chance her offspring has congenital syphillis!

Date: 2012-02-19 06:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] eglantine-br.livejournal.com
Again, hee. Imagines the conversation in a gazebo, over tea!

Date: 2012-02-21 10:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
"Your dear son is a such a fine upstanding young gentleman, but pray tell, is the squint the result of congenital syphilis or some other loathsome hereditary disease?"

Date: 2012-02-21 10:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] anteros-lmc.livejournal.com
ROFL!! And have you employed this line of enquiry personally?!

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